Thanks you two, you have gotten me through a lot of this junk.
Mu, as to your list...
Confident, more so than I have been in a long time.
Happy, I am actually happy with the rest of my life. Work is going well, slow but well. Have tons of friends. Joking around more. R with kids is better than ever. I have gotten to know a side of my family that I was isolated from as a child.
Self assured, getting there. Self sufficient, yep. Self control, more now than ever.
Physical shape. I'm 6 foot 170lbs. So I'm not in bad shape, could he better and will be once our ball league starts here in a couple weeks.
And I have been enjoying myself with many of the couples we have as friends in common.
Draw her to me with the light from within. I like that anc!
Thanks you two crazy kids. Hope you are enjoying the weekend!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
D, I think you are doing really well, however I think you are still watching her too closely. And I also think its too soon to date! I have 3 children myself and I don't think I'd date someone with kids, I think that could just get complicated. Imagine dealing with not only your own x, but someone else's x (who would be in the picture forever if there are kids involved) - double the x factor, I can't even imagine.
I think it was Anc who said you need to get your mind off W, she is right. The tricky part is that once you actually detach they start showing more interest, which kind of grabs your attention again. But don't fall for it! Detach, or fake it.
