I told my IC in the early days that it was hard because I still loved WAW. He told me not to fight the feelings of love, but to simply learn to accept that they were unrequited. It didn't take long for them to die. Little by little that pain tells you 'cut this out, these feelings aren't helping'. But only once you stop trying to control WAW into reciprocating.
Detaching is the #1 goal. Nothing to do with her. It's all about you letting go. Start a new thread soon and I'll keep in touch. Take care.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
