infact last tues I said to my h as he departed from the kids and I at dd's doc apt, that my service engine soon light was on. Totally over his head he looked at the panel of the car and said "no it isn't" to wich I replied "MY service engine soon light is on" to wich he replied "Oh, I'll have to make a note of that" gave me the obligatory peck goodbye and back to work he went. That was LAST tues...don't recall how long it had been to have me make the statement in the first place. I told him this am why I was grumpy...his response "I'll add it to the rest of my inadequacies" WTF???? uhm hello? I don't complain about anything other than the one issue...sure I get grumpy as a result of the issue and other things may bother me more than they should but wtf?
