Hi Heather- I am in the thick of it: living with my MLCer who never moved out. You have really come such a long way. WOW!! You are a WONDERFUL inspiration to us, to your daughters and to yourself!
I do believe he sees you all have moved on. He got the vibe when he pinged D21.
Just chiming in that words are just words. When my H talks I validate but I also hear the teacher from the Peanuts cartoons: wah wah wah wah wah...
Step on the gas pedal!!!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
Listen to your gut - Matt is bad news. You have come so so so so far. Your D21 would be furious if she thought you would let him back. You girls really know how strong you are now, don't let them down.
Miss you lady:)
Stay strong
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
