Work on your boundaries. Standing up for yourself and your marriage is an attractive quality.
Need some work on this... is this covered extensivly in the DR book? Im not very confident after just reading the tread posted about boudary cheat sheet or whatever its called from Cadets welcome post.
M30 - W29 - S1.5 EA/PA Confirmed - Oct 30, 2015 Confronted W about the A - Nov 1, 2015 W asked for seperation - Nov 22, 2015 W moves out of house - Jan 3rd, 2016
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.