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Nothing to add except that it took me three paragraphs to realize that you meant ACTUAL coffee.

LOL. Yes. Her partner is a cop, so even if I were interested, I'd look for my coffee elsewhere thank you. No, she just is a really good soul and one of the few people that has enough experience and background to be really insightful and interesting to talk shop with. I don't feel like it becomes a tutoring session with her, as I do with many of the others.

BTW, she highly recommended John Gottman's What Makes Love Last? While the title makes it sound like many of his other books which focuses on how to strengthen a struggling marriage, this one talks about healing the marriage after the split or betrayal. I haven't read it, but I just placed an order. She's strong on saving the M unless there is abuse (and she had an abusive R before, so she understands that well).

Weird. I would have bet that W came over this morning to take care of the forgotten book & "toy." Nope. Both right where they were. I guess she just forgot. Strange. I can't imagine forgetting & leaving something like that out, and I'm not as bashful about such things as my W always has been.

Then again, her memory has been off during a lot of this time.

Just another scratch one's head, shrug one's shoulders, and give a chuckle at the oddities of W's behavior.

Remember the board game Clue? WAW -in the bedroom - with the toy and divorce book.

It's a shame you can't have a good humorous moment over it with her.

Clue was one of my absolute favorite board games when I was in that age range.

Yes about the joking around.

As, I think you should put a picture of your smiling face on it.

LOL. That would spoil her mood. I think the humor would be lost on her.

But think about us, As, you would be cheering up a lot of lonely depressed heartbroken DB'ers. Come on, we need the laugh!

Now I want to find a way to mess with my H, I am a joker and he NEVER gets my humor. Even when things were good.

If you were REALLY a nice guy, you'd replace it with one that works.

^^^Literally LOL'ed Azzork^^^ or put some batteries next to it