cat04 Will catch up on your thread to find out where you in all of this. It seems you have reconciled? I don't know anyone on this forum yet. I need to learn how to mingle again!
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Perimenopause is no joking matter, I have been going through it for a while now.
Do you have a waning memory for words, like me? If so, how can it be helped? How do you manage it?
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If you think you can live close to your H and still have your own life then go for it.
For me personally, I'm not sure how him being close in vicinity will affect me, but I want that for the children .That is the most important thing for me. They must come first. We both feel that. H has even said that the reason for not wanting to leave home (while he is still seeing OW) is so that the kids don't miss out. (either that OR it's because he has been able to get away with it for so long!).
I'm sure I won't feel like this once he starts back on the dating scene and takes women back to his house. I will have to face that when it comes. For now, I;m just glad to be alone.
Thanks for checking in with me.
Joss
Married Dec. 1997 EA discovered April 2011 H lived at home until August 10th 2015 Separated August 10th 2015 kids aged 8. 14 and 15 I think we're done.
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Married Dec. 1997 EA discovered April 2011 H lived at home until August 10th 2015 Separated August 10th 2015 kids aged 8. 14 and 15 I think we're done.
(either that OR it's because he has been able to get away with it for so long!).