What you can do here is instruct your L to slow this train down as long as possible. If and when your W asks her L on the status and "pushes" for D again, then you can tell your L to go ahead and finalize it.
I (or rather my L) delayed things for as long as almost 4 years. That is until Ms. Wonka pushed for it to be done then I finally said to myself, "okay...let's get it done with here."
Now soccer season is starting up. I enrolled both kids as I thought it would be healthy and also give us some bonding time. Do you feel it's ok to ask W to join along- of course I want it to just be a family activity, but I can't very well say don't bring anyone. Right?
First practice is Saturday and the next Saturday as well.
Suggested text
W - S10 and D6 and I are going to attend the first scrimmage for soccer on Saturday. We'll be there at 10 at the XX park if you want to join us.
Take care - Heavy
I think the text is good. It is short and to the point while leaving it open for W to join if she chooses to do so.
Of course that is why she won't attend. Soccer practice with kids or getting it on with AP. Easy choice. So want to respond with something negative. But I wont!
Oh that's right...you have a video camera at W's AND OW's place.
It isn't helping at all. Just so you know, it isn't always about the OW/OM. It could be her work schedule is having an impact on her or trying to juggle her own GAL activities.
When W has the kids, you have your own life with your own GAL activities such as MeetUps, etc.
