Just checking on you bud! How are things? Give us an update,please!
T14 M5 SD15,D8,S6,D3 "Not Happy" 12/11/14 EA discovered 2/11/15 MC started 2/17/15 MC "put on hold" 4/3/15 W IC started 4/5/15 PA admitted 5/7/15 WW moves out 5/8/15 WW gets her own place 7/15/15
Doesn't change your approach D, other than think of this a bit more as a co-parent. The kids will be much better off if you stay close distance wise. Otherwise, it disrupts their activities (sports, band, clubs, or just hanging with friends). It is like multi-tasking: one eye on your M & one on the sitch for the kids.
In fact in D negotiations, I'd be pushing for some kind of clause limiting distance for the kids sake, but that may not be realistic with career needs etc.
Edit - Please start a new thread - Cadet
Last edited by Cadet; 08/19/1505:22 PM. Reason: message
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15