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Grim indeed! At least it's supposed to be bright this weekend and fairly warm.

Hi NDY

How'd the weekend go?

Hi Huddy et Al

The weekend was very profound. I had a taste of what life for me could really be like.

Which leads me to my next point which is that I won't be around here for a while. I'll drop in every now and again but in reality I'm done with this.

My thinking? Someone asked me in the wee small hours of Sunday what makes NDY happy and do you know what? I couldn't answer.

To describe it I said imagine your whole life is written on a chalkboard. And on BD someone comes along and wipes the whole lot off. You can still see marks where your old life used to be but really it's gone. Consigned to history.

So now it's time to go figure out what to put on that board instead.

The other thing that happened that made me feel this way is that the WW dropped of S10 yesterday, and I felt nothing.

So yea, I don't want to save this M any more. For me it's over and I'm going off to do something else.

Good luck to you all and I hope it works out for you.

Peace

That's a shame bud. Good luck - whatever!

Good luck. Suspects that now WW starts changing course & eventually becomes the pursuer of our NDY?

Sounds like you are in a healthy place & seizing the opportunity to be fully alive.

Good luck NDY,

may the force be with you...

Hey NDY,

I know how you feel mate. I've been real scarce around here. My blackboard was wiped clean. In retrospect it is not really surprising that I can't even resurrect the rubbed out parts of what Py liked doing. one because there wasn't really time for anything, and what was left was Py did husband/father things when there was.

reinvention time!

Also, like you, I am done with this M. "IF" a NEW R ever strikes up - thats another story.

be happy my friend.

Hi folks

So it's been a few weeks since I've been here in earnest. I've came back for one specific reason. It would appear that my WW wants to talk. She won't specify what it is she needs to talk about but it has to be face to face. All very strange.

As you have advised others here. No expectations.

Have you agreed. I'm sure you weren't over enthusiastic, if you have.

Keep us up to date.

Glad you have been well enough to not need to be here as much.

Best of luck

Hi Roiste

I have the feeling I'm not going to like what she has to say. I txt her back to say that if it's bad news I'd rather know now rather than later, and she agreed and intends to email me.