Aquarian, Your graph is brilliant! There's no surprise that the top two HD LLs are physical touch and words of affirmation but I'm amazed and encouraged that those two are popular with LDs too. After this evening I am coming to the delicious conclusion that my W's top LL may actually be Physical Touch!!!!! When I watch her with S11 particularly she loves to cuddle him. I think that I am so over-the-top with my cuddling her that I am actually stiffling her primary LL. I can't tell you how excited I am about this discovery SD Current Survey Results
me HD Physical Touch (especially intimacy) Quality Time Words of Affirmation Receiving Gifts (the very occasional gift is awesome..don't require this regularly at all...that would be a waste)
LDW Acts of Service (i think...she's happy even though i don't provide much of this...but that's her number one giving LL) Physical Touch (non-intimate) Quality Time (may reverse with above)
I am definitely HD and mine are (1)quality time and (2)physical touch/gifts.
Of course right now, the physical touch might win out over the quality time, but in a normal circumstances, I'd have to say quality time was probably my #1.
Ditto on the gifts comment. A card or note means as much to me as a gift. It's definitely the idea that I was thought of.
