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So, I took my son to the fireworks last night, and he loved them!! I was worried about how he would react to the loud noise, but as long as I kept my hands over his ears, he was fine. He particularly liked the ones that chase around. Good night with him.

I seriously need to detach more though as I wonder if that's what really happened or if he is staying at the campground to allow OW to be with him.

Eirinn, you can't ignore the possibility either. Part of this process is to protect yourself and your son. despite your great attitude and Focus on you you should at least consider how this behavior could compromise you & son. Is there a boundary that can be set to make sure you are protecting yourself (I will not sleep with my wife as long as she is involved with another man, and even after until she were to take a std test...that sort of thing to absolutely protect yourself from physical or emotional harm).

I think the key us ri be detached enough to see what us going in and not dwell on it. So that behavior does not control OUR lives. Think this is precisely why there is so much support for the LBS to collect Intel to make sure our actions are educated and we do not get hurt even more.

I am so very sorry is happening. I could be completely wring in this.

I really hope you have a great day today, your little one deserves you and your love for him!!! You deserve better than you've been treated, so treat yourself to something fun today, you REALLY deserve it!!!!!

((((Hugs))))

Thanks for these thoughts, Zephyr. I was feeling down on myself for thinking about him, but you are right. I'm trying to balance focusing on the better me, and my son, and watch for progress from my H. I'm pretty sure he's having an EA, but no PA yet.

Thanks for the hugs too, I really could use them. How is your day going?

***hugs*** back at ya!
E

I am having a great weekend. Hanging out In Michigan with family, my folks and in laws. Ignoring the drama (as s13, says..things are much less dramatic when you ignore the drama).

Embracing the summer sun
Had a good birthday yesterday, had zero expectations so there was no disappointment at all.

Did someone say they need hugs?!!!

HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGSSSSSSS!!!!!


There you go. Enjoy.

PP

Thanks PP!!!! Those were awesome!

**Hugs** (there I'll give you a few from me!)

Thanks!
E

Happy belated birthday!! Sending big hug your way.

Happy 4th of July to you too, Eirinn!

((hugs))

Bob

My D3 was the same way. Had to put some headphones on her to drown out the sounds. Thinking of you and wishing you a happy weekend with your S.

Thanks, Bob and Matt!

Matt I hope your weekend is good as well with the little ones. You've been holding up really well, but I know it is so hard to keep that PMA going non stop. Although I've been conflicted with my H gone this weekend, I've actually enjoyed the time to just be me, and not DB with him around.

*hugs*