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Working on it mate. Trying to get the L to persuade her to go back to mediation. That way we save money and S9 gets counseling. I really can't see the negative in that arrangement.

I know she was angry when I objected to txting the OM. Perhaps that anger has subsided a bit. We shall see.

Up and down on the rollercoaster, again. There has to be a boundary re OM. You're respecting her space, she has to do the same. Seems like she's not using S as a weapon anymore. That is a blessing.

Don't hold your breath on the S9 as a weapon. There is still more to go on this my friend. Of that I can be assured.

But yes, no txting OM in my presence. She will no doubt see that as me standing in her way blah blah blah. Remember as far as she is concerned there is no M to save. So I should just get out of her way and let her get on with what she's doing.

NDY,

You're doing good staying on the DB path. Keep going....I like how you trained your L to tone down on the R word. Sheesh...

Thanks wonka. I'm trying.

Hi folks

So WW drops of S9 tonight. She didn't even get out of her car and was gone before I knew they arrived.

Looks like I'll be hanging with you cats just a bit longer.

Eye rolling

Not enough melons in there....

Lol. You make me laugh wonka.

Quiet week bud?

Hi mate

Quiet on the WW front yes. Not been in contact and last night she didn't get out of her car. That's all cool.

I do have S9 though and he and I are doing the coolest project customising a paint job on a nerf gun. I don't know who's more excited me or him.

On another note WW sends him here with one change of clothes. For two nights. She's that thick in the fog she forgot she took almost all his stuff. That's ok though. The shops are open till ten so we got him new stuff. And he got to pick.

Nice.