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Thanks U-turn and welcome to my home. Come by any time.

So, looking for the email writing guru's to chip in with the reply to WW email. As for the L I was just going to say I'll get back to you'.

But she has said that she is very sorry it has came to this (going L) because mediation didn't work.

Was wondering what Clint would say in reply about being sorry but not just for going Legal?

I just wanted to drop you a note out of courtesy and to keep you up to date with what is going on. I met with my Lawyer yesterday and have now instructed [censored]to act on my behalf so that we can try to move forward to agree our separation terms. Unfortunately the mediator sessions didn’t work and I feel that I have no alternative but to move on to the next step.

Can you let me know if you have now instructed your lawyer to act on your behalf or are you still in the process of this?

I am really sorry this is now where we are, but I am still hopeful that we can work through this together as amicably as possible in order to minimise the disruption and impact on S9.

I'll get back to you on the L details shortly.

I am sorry that we are here as well.

NDY,

I am going to ask that you forget about the draft for a minute here.

Why don't you write a long post here venting all of your rage, pain, anger, and sadness here. Get it all out here. That will be authentic coming from the core NDY. Get it AlLL out of your system, buddy. Don't censor yourself. Just do it right here.

Hi WW

I'm sorry that we are here too. I still can't believe that not so long ago you were still my lover, my confidant, my best friend, my partner in crime standing shoulder to shoulder taking on the world together. I really thought we would grow old together. I though we would have so many more adventures the 3 of us until S9 grew up and flew the nest. Then it would be just us.

Sure, the last couple of years we've been unlucky in a number of ways. And yes, we did let life get in the way of living and I know I played a LARGE part in our M breaking down but I'f I understood for one minute just how deeply unhappy you really were I would have moved heaven and earth to do something about that. But I never knew how bad it got. We stopped making time for just us.

Remember what your mum said when S9 was just a baby about how we should make time for each other because children grow up? Good advice we forgot to take on board.

And I see our son and I despair at how he will be denied the chance to grow up with us both, and all the opportunities being in a family with both parents supporting him.

These days I miss my friend, my wife. I see or hear something funny and I still want to tell you about it. I want to re connect with you but you took another lover. He's fulfilling a need that should be up to me and me alone.