Well said. In August of last year I was getting praised for being the perfect husband and father. Now? I'm a monster for scheduling a doctors appointment without consulting my WW first.
I'll see her tonight. I don't think I'll apologize because I don't think I did anything wrong, I will try and make her feel like I understand how she could be frustrated though.
DEFINITELY a chess game!
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15
Well said. In August of last year I was getting praised for being the perfect husband and father. Now? I'm a monster for scheduling a doctors appointment without consulting my WW first.
I'll see her tonight. I don't think I'll apologize because I don't think I did anything wrong, I will try and make her feel like I understand how she could be frustrated though.
DEFINITELY a chess game!
Hi mate. I don't think you should try to make her feel anything. Just stand up for your principles. You did nothing wrong. IMO, if you start from the position that you want to tell her how she should feel you are onto a loser.
Just stand your ground. You are a good dad and that's nothing to be ashamed of.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Another sad thing is everything we do, makes our Spouses see it as control.
I love the analogy playing chess with 15 queens, if only I was excellent at playing chess. Putting in this context, I have a tiny chance of even check mating the king :-(
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
