Hi all, Hope everyone had a great Holiday. Time to get back to work. Sigh....
Well, I just had an interesting development. Tomorrow is our next C session and W just called me and told me she didn't want to go...again. Then she said that she didn't think we "needed" to go anymore. ???
Not sure how to take that one. I mean, she's been a lot more upbeat lately. YS coming home has helped a lot with that I'm sure. She seemed to have a really good time over the holidays, with everyone coming out here and has definitely seemed more relaxed over the past several weeks than she's been in a long time.
Can't say that I was looking forward to the session, but not sure how I feel about not going to one. It's still hard for us to talk about a lot of things and I guess I was hoping that we'd get better about communicating with the help of a counselor. God knows we still have a few issues.
Well, as usual, I'm caught off guard. Guess I'll have to figure out a way to ask her about why she thinks we don't need to go anymore without making it sound like I disapprove.
Sorry, but I'm just getting caught up. You probably have already dealt with the counseling issue, but you might consider this little surprise: "That's fine. Do you mind if I go by myself? I think there are some things I could work through."
I'm glad you're working on being more positive. I think my H and I have decided that I'll be the positive one and he'll be the negative one and that's what we do. It does help that every once in a while he tells me that it bothers him that he's so negative. At least I know that he knows. Might want to think about sharing that with your W too, if you haven't already.
