Hi LL, You sound great. I left the board for a while so I have not kept up with your sitch but sounds like you are working stuff out. As always I feel like I could be writing your thread.
take care
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
B if that lil post makes you wanna cry...get out the tissues...
things I wanted to happen when h first came home...
1. drop ow as customer 2. weekly date night 3. start moving business closer to home
We battled over these things many times..various exuses why they weren't occuring. I finally gave up on them and decided to accept life as it was and realize it wasn't so bad.
POOF!
within the past month I have learned that
1. Ow is no longer a customer at all!! 2. We had weekly reading nights scheduled and now have booked sitter for every other sat night.
now the biggie 3. h has mentioned on two occassions putting adds in local venues..ie, the free local paper circulated through this and the next town over and the church bulletin from another town next door!!
So I guess that patience stuff really does pay off!!
AWESOME! Like they say, "drop the rope". I'm finding if I put no pressures on my H and "drop the rope", leave the ball in his court; good things happen!
Now I wonder, why in the heck didn't I do this before. It is much easier and my nerves thank me too, LOL!
Things are finally looking better for you after a long, hard trip down the OW highway.... You deserve a big ((((LL)))) for your persistence and hard work..
