In my brief time on OK Cupid I've noticed some interesting trends in ladies answers to the personality trait questions. I've yet to read one that does not say that her self confidence is "higher than average"...I put "average". Apparently few of them are on Facebook and none Tweet! It's also interesting to note that not one born again lady chooses the answer "sex is for marriage" 'cuz every one I've read says she'll put out in "6 dates or more"...ok, more may mean 1000, who knows lol. Fascinating sociological stuff...ok, maybe not fascinating but it's keeping me amused anyway.
OK I've added this to one of my online profiles...it'll be a test run lol
"20 Can't Miss Reasons Why You Should Want to Meet Me"
1. I’ve actually read your profile 2.I will never call you "Babe" 3. I know running shoes don't go with every outfit 4. I believe Sushi is a power food 5. Head games make my brain hurt 6. A weekend with Pepsi Max was my mid-life crisis 7. I’ll respect your shoe collection 8. I believe in God and He believes in me 9. I really am divorced! 10. Old Spice...no dice 11. I'll make you laugh until you pass Latte through your nose 12. I know fine dining means more than two forks 13. I can inhale and exhale independently 14. I'm modestly awesome 15. I know Michael Kors is not a beer 16. I don’t live in my parent’s basement 17. I am a techno-peasant and therefore incapable of sending you "those" photos. 18. I love IKEA too (Ok, I'm just kissing up to you with that one)! 19. I don’t want to be here either 20. And did I mention that I really am divorced?
Jeez, so many sex questions on OK Cupid! I have never heard or use that site. I've only tried Christian Café (briefly chatted with two guys there) but mostly I made friends on the chat room, had a good time with the freeby trial. Christian Singles had lots of guys who, giving them points for being honest, put on their profiles that they attend church a couple of times a year. For me, going to church is not a Christmas, Easter thing, is a way of life and I go every Sabbath, and would not marry anyone who doesn't have God first in their life. Not trying to insult anyone here, but my point is that for a "Christian" site, CS seemed pretty close to Match.com
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Cat, I tried Christian Cafe and it was a disaster! I had a woman follow me there from POF...it was weird and she was nuts! Anyway, these people wanted to date Jesus, not me lol. In all seriousness, the pickings were very poor and I live in a huge city. I was not impressed. If i wanted to message with Filipino women still in the Philippines it's a gold mine lol. It just wasn't worth the price of admission. Oh and every women I've approached is Christian...and we Christians are just as nutty as everyone else apparently lol. Btw, Lady number 3 was in touch with me again and we exchanged a couple of messages. She said she understood what I was saying. I told her if she was really serious about looking for a relationship then I'd be willing to start chatting again but I told her "I'm not looking for a fly by chat buddy." So we shall see. I do like her...I'll probably regret this, won't i lol.