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By the way I'm so happy for you

Thanks everyone! H arranged our date night last Friday/no more D celebration. We actually ended up having a nice dinner and going to City Walk (a group of bars, etc). It was a nice night minus my headache the next day. It's crazy to think where I am this year vs this time last year. I had just joined DB and was an emotional wreck.

Pink - thank you:) I hope you're doing well. I have to look up your sitch and get updated.


We have both grown and changed together. Our relationship is really great. I start grad school next month so we will see how that goes. It will be pretty intense for 2 years but then I will be free! Haha

I still lurk on this board but I'm always on my phone so it's hard to post a long detailed response to others. Sometimes I feel like I come off short.

Anyway thank you everyone

I'm happy for you, TO. Looks like we live in same neck of woods too.

Thanks Zelda

I feel like we have a lot of Floridians around here

Hi TO,

Really happy things are going well to you and your H. So, just to freshen up and I am sure you know this well, but just a reminder.

Please, be on DB mode. Be careful you don't fall back into old habits. Take care after yourself and make yourself happy independent of anyone or anything around you.

God bless you and your family. Be happy and enjoy the ride.

Love
Pink

Thanks pink! I hope you are doing well.

Not much to report around here. Life has been pretty busy since I've started Grad School --- the DNP is not for the faint of heart. 2 years and I will never (hopefully) go back to school again!

Things are well on the home front. H remains stressed about work and finances and is still waiting on this other job. I listen when he talks about it but I don't really dive into it too much. We've continued to keep our finances separate. We never have done this until after S. Prior to BD everything was always joint. It does feel strange to me still ... Us taking turns paying things, etc but We both agree it's what's best for us right now.

I do find myself with baby fever right now! I brought it up to H and he shut it down saying he's done for good. So I'm trying to deal with that lol

Hope everyone is well

Things can always change, don't take what he says now as how it will always be. I said something similar when W got pregnant with our 3rd just before BD. Now I feel like I want 2-3 more, just not sure with who/when that will be.

Wounded fool are you around anymore??

I just wanted to say hi - I haven't seen you post in awhile.

T0,
I saw your thread updated and I just wanted to say thanks for investing so much time and energy in my sitch. You have been a huge blessing to me. Thanks!

Why yes, Alive and well (the rumors of my death are greatly exaggerated). I still lurk, but have not found any threads that jump out as needing my "free advice". But my eye is always out for them.