To all the Ladies out there willing to give answers:
Who likes to perform fellatio on their man, and are you HD/LD/ND? I kind of believe that this act is what is the defining difference between LD and HD (at least in most cases).
I have always enjoyed performing fellatio on my H. He, however, was not the best at performing it on me, meaning I was not impressed with his skills. Apparently I have had better skilled fellatio givers before he came into my life.
So, as time passed and he realized I really didn't care for him going down on me, he quit asking me to go down on him. I have offered it at times in the past several years before our separation just because I loved him and enjoy doing it to him and he had left me with the impression he enjoyed receiving it, but he turned me down all but ONE time. His loss.
I currently classify myself as LD, hoping to change back to HD.
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
I enjoy performing BJ's on hubby (except when he grabs my head and chokes the He!! out of me ) He always considered it an inconvenience to do the same for me. At least thats how he acted about it. I am not impressed with his skills in that department.
I am HD
Here's a question for you guys....... and excuse the bluntness here, but why does a guy want to choke you anyway? There is so much more you can do while giving a BJ besides just the ole "in and out" routine. Maybe thats just my H's way. Hmmmmmmmmm he is somewhat controlling..... could there be a connection here?
Most emphatically yes and I am HD. I love to have it reciprocated, too. I will direct my partner if I need a different sensation or pressure, etc, and will take direction from my partner, too. Guys, try licking the alphabet slowly and see who "breaks" first.....It's a nice game to play with each other...sessions with edibles such as whipped cream, honey, peanut butter, chocolate sauce etc. are very fun too.
I do no think that oral is a defining difference in any respect. HD's understand how essential intimacy and sex is to a relationship and LD's would rather die first than have any type of sexual communication with their partner.
Yeah, well, with your talk of whipped cream and chocolate sauce and honey, you're killing me, too. How am I supposed to stick to my Atkins Diet with talk like that?
LOL. I'm glad to see that your sense of humour is back in full force.
Really interesting 
