M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Here is a budget site I recommend to my clients. It is free stuff and explains very well with access to resources. I consider it well written, but I apologise if you already know this stuff. Plenty of GAL points for this!
I know how you feel about crying and just kind of feeling lost. My IC tells me that crying is good and it is healing. I responded that I should be the healthiest, sanest person on the planet if that is the case, because I cry quite frequently.
Hang in there!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
I want to get my feelings out by writing them down, but I just can't do it. Thoughts flit through my head and yet every time I sit down I can't write them out.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
I've written LOADS and it really helped me order my thoughts, but i'm not sure it helped me to detach or dwell
If you have windows 7 (or maybe later) it has a voice to text function so you could try just setting that going and talking at your computer for a bit - plus you'll get the entertainment of the random misinterpretation that the software does.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies