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Pah!!! excuses

I know right, 15 hours plus by plane! Dinner would be very cold.

X was the dude the boss rang up about last week.

Thinking over yesterday as you do on bed time, observing

It felt easy, there was sort of banter
He seemed to be asking stuff for understanding (seemed g like) rather than judging.
He was more open than the cute dude who seemed hard to connect with!

No getting all excited jim, but the nearest croc is thousands of km from here unless in a zoo. X prefers getting out of town into bush settings on his weekend. Doesn't seem to live the pub life style but has worked pubs. hospitality and retail. So that much in common.

Not sure his views on horses and farm which is a life style as much as a hobby. It cramps stuff often some cannot do it without resentment which was xh.

Man those puppet animals have a lot to answer for! I know know Resentment is bad, and connection is what I thought.

It explains why I felt judged and harrased, because h was completely jackal even when saying it's only done to help you was jackal.

It's why I exploded and in my head could hear all h scripts as my inner educator.
I had no rights to any feelings I had to justify why I even had them. H expected I could switch them off and provided forgiveness and say "sorry" issue ended.

It was all punishment, it certainly felt like it. H is still looking for leavers and punishments via his L, to control.

Sigh, it's not working, but he canot see that.

Evening, wow still? I really dont understand this kind of controlling behaviour. Why want to be with someone and want to control them? Yes, I know power but I still just dont get it.

Sounds like your getting things sorted in your mind gg.

Ah well shall have to eat these bread sticks all by myself

seems Fabio turned up and force fed me a whole packet of m&m!

Omg the truth is far less exciting, I ate the packet and shared a couple with the dogs.

I feel very sick! groan....

At least the 5 foremen help put out the bins, they got their weekly run to the letter box.
Got to do the weekend chores, pick up doggie poos and now the lawn. The new phone cover for the brand new phone is here today as well.

Might have to go on a dog biscuits run as well.

Ah m&M's they'll get you every time I think they're psychic and syren call to be munched...or...possibly I just have no self control and eat them..this is why I have none in

I didn't mean to buy them, they just jumped in the trolley.

I swear gods honnest truth.

Went to tea with the fairy God mother, I nearly died however when s17 said he was coming!




Then when I told him I'd let him know what time by text, he said um nope, that message wasn't for you.
So not so suprised and s17 isn't returning to the planet of home anytime soon.

Told you the puppet animals were great! I loved your description of crutching and wigging, Gg. Can't wait till you take on mulesing though hope lambie is spared both that and fly strike!

I'm sorry you got the impression I crutches and wigged, I can do it but farm tennat did it not me.

Lambie was tailed and mulesed weeks ago. Tennat did their 200 one more meh, no drama. Lambie was one of theirs any way.

I thought those uk city slickers would be lost without explaination.

Yeah the jackel lol will be replaying that a few times slow learner here.
I understand now why praise in the jackel way makes things worse and it's hard to hear.
The inference is there are times when do not measure up.

But the bit where the woman was looking at ways to Handel her mother was me and s17.

He used to scream that's not what I said, said it back exactly! Cause when you don't your a liar! Mmmmmm complete jackal.

While I was trying to understand, he was busy trying to be right and winning.
Nope I did not do a good job, I give myself half a point for trying.

Nah, I figured you had a farm hand do that.

So you talk about the jackal speak but what of your giraffe ears? Can you look past all that jackal speak and hear only unmet needs? That's the tough part I think!