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This is great mate. I know I was saying I was going to skip as much of Christmas as possible but I have a tree and garlands and s and I got new tree decorations and Christmas stockings etc.

As much into it as I can be mostly for s but also partially for me now. Still looks like it will be my dad's after work on Christmas eve until Christmas afternoon when I'll pick up s but if so then OK.

Hi south. You post seems a bit more positive. Pleased for you. Take rd

war of the worlds has always been my go to option for 12 year old girls

glad you're doing ok.

how to hell do i hold back when i want to destroy the b1Tch .

apparently my ex W has told my S that if D wants presents from her and the MIL and aunty then she has to see them to get the christmas presents.

well D has just called me and isnt to bothered to be honest but is annoyed that she feels they are blackmailing her .

W is surely doing everything she can to try and repair her relationship with her D NOT!!!!

and it was all going so well . ive proper dropped the rope and can actually laugh about what the W has done.

Hi south. Nice to hear from you sorry W in doing what she is doing but keep wrong for you and your kids. Keep laughing and just let it pass you. In 10'years your kids will look back and know their dad did all he could and don't get mixed up with Ws antics. Stand tall for your self as well mate. This has been a horrible time and you will come through. Take care. Rd

Hi South, Its dreadful your W is being like that but it might make things easier in some ways. As RD says your kids will know you were there for them

Man alive South. That's a real pea souper she's lost in.

Good to hear you're laughing at her antics, but such a shame for your kids.

Hi south I'm glad you've posted. Good to see your detachment and sense of humour are in tact but I'm feeling for you. Not much else to add to what's been said but hold on in there.

Merry Christmas to you all ,
Thanks for your comments .

It took me a while but I realise I'm a lot happier without W .

I've met an amazing new friend who I would never had met if the things in the past didn't happen like they did .

So really looking forward to what 2015 holds for me .

I realise you cannot control your destiny but one thing I have learnt is to grab things with both hands and be honest and it can lead to amazing things in life

South. You sound great mate. Well done. Really pleased for you. Take it steady and have a great new year. ! Rd