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Good stuff Gg, told you they were just worried *you* wouldnt be interested, take your time, relax and have fun

I think Im in the same mindset as V right now, wondering when somethign will change and either w will phase back into my life or it'll just be time for someone new. Anyway thats more like me wallowing which isnt the way is it

Back to you, boost that PMA skywards, best heels and dress, go get 'em. Lets see if any gossips can physically explode!

Friday, will be a heels day and Sunday!

Lol it's essential to wear heels to get milk on an early finish. by then might have q coffee date, hhhhmmmmm been saying that for 6 months!

It's not rushing.

Oh x has been around for a while as a work mate, not a job I do all the time, but not a cold turkey type of thing. Nearly 12months.

Weighed in.

Still a gain, but did take some off from last week. Not back to previous low.

Gg blames hormones can hardly do up pants belly is bloated, Bewbs too and I'm starving. Eating well again after bug.

Healthy home made food. Fruit and veg. Do the right things and results will follow. Focusing on doing the right thing.

No treats, till Sunday. Then it will be desert! Mmmmm mouse.

Moooouuuuuusssse....

Oh, not that kind?

Just a query when you feel this way have you tried cutting down on fruits etc and trying more protein e.g. meats and cheeses in small amounts and low carbs. May be your system just doesnt like handling them and is leading to bloating (just read 3 books on this, still dont trust pure atkins style no carbs it made me ill when I tried it but seems to work for a lot of people)

Well i'm off to Italy at the weekend so i'll give Fabio a prod



two things on this

1) it puts so much unfair pressure on men who are expected to risk shame and humiliation and some find that easier to overcome than others (narcissists find it quite easy)

2) it actually disadvantages you. Think of two people of equal attractiveness both looking at a crowd of 100 people they are attracted to

Person A, is happy to ask and pursue the people they like in preference order 1st choice, 2nd choice. They dont mind rejection and will keep going until someone says yes

Person B wont ask, but will say yes to whoever asks them

Person A ends up dating the highest preference of people that were willing to say yes (best they could acheive). Person B dates whoever happened to ask them wherever they were in the preference order (random selection)

Its possible person B will end up in a better situation but person A gives themself a much better probability.

Italy, nice! Not sure Fabio will want you prodding him though.

Sorry, it's Ggs thread makes me lower the tone all the time

I know someone has to ask!

But if I give out my number act all cute things should progress. If not then perhaps they are just not interested.

See the only one who stepped up on my marriage was me. I kept doing it, I kept chasing.
H took no responsibility for anything action, it was never his fault never his wrong doing nothing h did effected anything. I even stepped up when ow was in picture, I got spat on.

Not just rejected but spat on. It's does make me fearful. That is disgusting behaivour.
I have never been so humiliated in my whole life, the person who did wrong telling you how bad you are, while spitting.

It's a small town x knows I'm single, he knows I would go for coffee.

If x doesn't he will soon, 2 friends will "socially engineer" it that he does.
The cute dude knows, rhc knows, testicle dude knows and has been asked out to dinner Sundays. (Refuses to come always an excuse)

Well I'd ask you gg, just said toots can go to dinner if she's in deepest darkest Dorset, bit of a journey for you though

I asked cute dude, um nope. Still nice still pleasant but that's a no!

Not a no not ever but seems less likely.
You know what jim most of these lots seem far too hesitant to take a risk, if I ask they back off.

Well now we see what x brings.


Had a really lousy day and that prompted the asking. Then stuff fell out, and let's say I dug a huge a$$ hole and fell in Serverall times!

Stfu! See,s some of us never learn

Dont beat yourself up Gg, I still havent learned the STFU up song at times it's just human