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Well, I just want to wish all of my lovely DB friends a happy Valentines Day. We may not be in the sitch we hoped for, but hopefully we can have the best day possible.

Someone (thank you!) posted that the sun will rise on Feb 15th and we shall all still be here, which helped me. Valentines Day may magnify our feelings, but it too shall pass and we shall move forwards.

For me, I'm volunteering this morning, and then going to a lingerie/swimwear factory outlet for a spot of shopping before calling in on M&D and a friend who's visiting them. Plan to keep pretty busy today and not 'dwell.' Show myself some self-love. Don't plan to contact H or SS. Will send H a message for his b'day in a week or so.

Have the nicest day possible for yourselves everyone! xx

Morning toots

Was just coming online to do the exact same thing on my thread in a mo, well not the lingerie outlet, I'd get odd looks!

Have a great day mate

Toots, hope you have as good a Valentine's Day as possible. I wish I had more plans for the day (I only have plans for the evening). Your plan sounds good, enjoy it and keep your mind off everything!

Thanks Edz and Susana

Just back from volunteering and making some lunch. Lit a couple of tealights for us this morning while having coffee in bed. Put on my wedding ring for a few minutes (not worn it since BD) and had a little cry. That's all the dwelling I plan to do for today.

Heading out after lunch for the afternoon. Feel a bit wistful today, but basically ok.

Hope you both have a good day....and a nice evening Susana! T x

Don't let it get to ya toots. Defo a sh1tty time with love in the air everywhere else but it will be over by tomorrow.
L aughably my wife bought me some chocolates. She hasn't mentioned it yet but told our d8 that she has and there are some on top of the fire. I almost p1ssed myself laughing inwardly of course. I can't wait to get out now as my bullsh1t detector is at maximum capacity. Keep smiling

Had a cry this morning as well...couldn't help it. I've gone to a local coffee shop where thank god there's nothing remotely V Day related. Think I'll hide here for awhile!

Enjoy the rest of your day T. Thanks!x

Hi all

(((Susana4))) (((toots)))

Not much time today been a busy edz. Sorry you were upset this morning guys. I do occasionally take a look at my ring, its in the top kitchen drawer. I've picked it up from time to time but, no, I put it back. If its ever to go back on it will be w who puts it there.

Must admit to feeling a bit hit by it late afternoon after making lunch and s having some time on minecraft. No reply from w after texting earlier in the day (need to check on s return plans) but she has called this evening, I'll update my thread in a bit. S is staying again though so thats good

Sorry to hear you were down too edz. Hope things picked up for you in the evening with S. ((()))

How was your shopping and visit Toots? Hope you had a nice day :)x

Hope toots doesn't mind a mini hijack. Yes its been a good old day, I've missed w would have thought there was something odd if I hadn't but I've - pardon the pun - tootled along. Thanks for the hug