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Ggrass #2529801 01/22/15 11:03 AM
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Gg, to paraphrase the well know axiom: you're as young as the guy you're feeling wink

Anyway you got the whole heels thing going for you you know!


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
edz #2529804 01/22/15 11:16 AM
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Apparently there is a formula you know:

Youngest
half your age plus seven. (29-30)

Oldest
current age, subtract 7, and multiply it by 2 (76)

And with this I'll stop being devilish today (cant you tell I have a lot of conference calls)


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
edz #2529810 01/22/15 11:34 AM
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Him and I bouncing off each other in front of perhaps his gf or date?

Um just was odd. Unless she was just some random, like relative or friend.

Put it this way, if I was her, I would not be amused. One of those stitches you as a woman's would feel bad about, but just would it know why. I know why now but before with h, I didnt know why.

I felt like he was trying to impress her by being all cool and flirty with me, smacks of triangulation. If she was a gf, if not then meh!


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
Ggrass #2529811 01/22/15 11:40 AM
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Oh, if they were together then that's not on frown


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
edz #2529817 01/22/15 11:50 AM
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I don't know the stich, so I'm just observing and indulging in mind reading.

Now days I see things that others would not. No one would bat an eye lid at what went down. Me, I just look at the dynamic and think...... sick

I see it soooo very clearly. crazy


M 46 h54
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T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
Ggrass #2529818 01/22/15 11:52 AM
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Yup seems to be through a glass darkly sometimes looking about, you do see people and say "uh oh"


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
edz #2529820 01/22/15 11:55 AM
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I'm not sure I would like that to be me.

I'm not sure how to change that dynamic if it were me. I just thought blerk.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
Ggrass #2529824 01/22/15 12:05 PM
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Yes, one thing to be happy polite and include people, quite another to openly flirt with someone in front of a significant other. One of those ground open up moments!


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
edz #2529825 01/22/15 12:08 PM
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Yeah, but service roles sort of lend them to cherie banter.

She sort of walked off, so it was hard to guess her r! Not seen him with her or ow much either. Was told ages ago single.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
Ggrass #2529829 01/22/15 12:11 PM
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Indeed awkward on many levels. As you say may have not been "together" or may have just thought im not hanging around if he's being like this. Tricky one to call.


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015
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