w came over today chirpy and looking her best, she had bought some bathroom/kitchen cleaner and some chocolate for me, she put some washing in the machine chatted for 5 mins then left.....
Cadet is right. I agree. Confused and unsure. Looks like her routines of ups and downs are something you have figured out. Congrats
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
Haha thanks, I sort of worked it out a while back tbh but I tend to blow it by asing her questions...... I've not asked her anything this week though and it seems to work because she spends more and more time here just chatting.
She came here again today and spent 2 hours cleaning upstairs, we had a chat about a TV series we used to watch together that has just started a second series and it felt more normal than usual.
She came back over again tonight and said she finds herself saying things that I would say when she's talking to her friends.
After she left she text me to say I looked in a panic when my phone beeped earlier, I didn't though so I don't know why she said it ! She then text to ask could she put furniture she had got for her house in our house, I said there wernt any room and she got a bit argumentative, I didn't bite though I just replied lightheartedly that I knew she was buttering me up for something.
I think she was expecting me to argue over it but I kept it all sort of fun and friendly, it must have thrown her a bit as she didn't reply. Maybe it's some sort of little test ?
w text me as soon as she woke up off her night shift asking was i managing ok with the bills, she said when she moves back to her mams that she would start paying half, i said no need but she insisted..... any ideas ??
Nothing at all today, no visit no text, nothing at all, she had her friend fetch the kids up mine for the night, this happens quite a lot, I see her non stop for days and then nothing at all for a few days ......
Really really sorry if that came over wrong, It wast meant as it clearly came across. I've been reading the last 11 pages of yours For the best part of an hour.
I simply meant that my situation seems to be all over the place After reading yours I can see your situation is very very similar.
How do I get to the very beginning of your situation ?
I would be very grateful for your support/advice etc And I hope I can offer you the same.
We seem to be at a similar stage, even the amount of weeks W has left.
Again Im sorry if I offended you in any way, My communication skills are one of the reasons I'm on here :-)
Take care, things usally work out for the best in the end.
No contact whatsoever from w, she's gone completely dark again, Im guessing Om is back in the picture so she's avoiding me and her conflicting feelings, tbh it's starting to feel like a game and I'm just about done with it all.
Trouble is w is holding all the cards, she won't sign divorce papers and She knows I won't leave the house, so she thinks she has all the time in the world To decide.
Like most on here I cannot believe the situation I find myself and my family in It's pure torture.
I'm hanging on by my fingertips but seriously Giving up hope everyday.
