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Yeah, I think my writings scattered, I'm very very tired.
Need to tub and bed.

Down edz, I will wear a full '50 neck to knee swim suit, ;)to save your blood pressure.

dum de dumm dummmmmm.....my names friday..

Ah Dan Aykroyd at his finest and a very young Tom Hanks too.

Aww... anyway Ive been spurned as I have Hazel eyes I shall sob into my coffee....

My eyes are emerald green, now matches the red hair!
Like Jolene in the Dolly Parton song.
And bright red nose, I have a cold.
V

Ah someone else with the lurgy!

Ah well lurgy with green eyes and auburn hair, you can pull that one off V

Soon enough we will start seeing rainbow eyes...

Here in Colorado you see a lot of red eyes, those looking like vampires... so much of medical drugs around.

Mine is very dark brown eyes with hair according to the mood, it changes as I feel like it. Right now, have it black as a night with no moon.

GG is doing great, lots of deal breakers. You have been working a lot, hope you get some deserved rest sometimes.

And just curiosity, GG is still loves H or it is all history now?

Hugs,
Pink

Wow that sounds serious I'm here in sleepy Dorset, not as midsummer as the TV shows would have you believe though.

Gg is indeed doing fantastically well indeed.

Hair and eyes sound smouldery indeed.

I have no idea if I still love him. Given all the truth darts that have come out( my way) that suggest h has always lied about most stuff.

Combine the lieing with him not owning his chit, and him always seemly doing the wrong thing re fediltity.

I sure as hell, am not giving it a go right this minute. He needs to do some serious soul searching and growth. The first step as many have said would be to be able to even state the truth.

I genuinely believe h when he states he's not lieing, he's lied so much he has no idea where the actual truth is.

Eyes aren't a deal breaker guys, h had brown. Xh had blue.
Lots of bf had blue and other colours nice eyes are nice eyes.

I didn't really have too much in deal breakers not in the same way h did. Little things to him were major, major things well hell broke out.

My deal breakers more normal type stuff, cheating, asultting sthen15.

I do sleep well a times, others not so well. Last night dead tired but didn't seem to sleep easy.

Think I was so over tired I could not sleep.

To be totally honnest with you guys, I'm just looking at what's out there, because I can. H has not wanted even friendly contact unless it's me giving him pursit attention or dollars. If I apllied the 80% rule there is nothing to give back.

Each meeting h hammers home how done he is, in fact so much so I almost want to vomit out of sheer volume and boredom.
H will have to find a new lair anyhow, the L has major conflict of interest. Which never looks good.

I just keep finding more and more evidence that h says does not exist. He keeps in effect telling me what to look for, it's really bizarre. Me I would stfu, but h never learnt that lesson. Big note bluff bully and threaten is all he knows.

There could be several reasons why h has done that, one to make things longer and thus more expensive or stupidity or some other crafty reason.

Oh and i took to my work shirts with sissors, and let the darts out, they were placed in the shirts for young pert teenagers and really never fitted that well. Now we have closure and not so much gapeage. Still working on loosing kg, but beewbs doing the hormonal thing are not helping. I can put them back later if they get too large. Which I doubt.

Hi gg,

Read your posts here and in vs thread. I wish I had better advice to offer, truth is I dont understand why anyone treats their spouse, anyone, that way. As you know my mil is similar in a cold hard controlling way. I don't get her either.

I'm glad your talking about it on the forums and hope were helping.

Cheers
Ed