Oh, I'm sure he's drinking. He drank more than I was happy with for many years. I believe his dad is alcoholic though nobody will acknowledge it. Before my H left he was drinking more than half a bottle of wine every evening, and a beer or two on top of it. He's not a big guy.
I do not want to acknowledge that he's alcoholic now or heading towards it but it has been a worry of mine for a long, long time. Even during the good times.
Yes, I know. AlAnon. It's on my plate, Labug, really. I will get there. I'm digging myself out from under a ton of bricks.
You'll get there when you get there, AlAnon will always be there. It doesn't work if you feel forced into it. Please remember, you don't have to say he's an alcoholic, the label doesn't matter.
His drinking may be the biggest brick in your pile.
You have my support no matter what you decide to do. It's a difficult, scary place in which you've found yourself. ((( )))
Last edited by labug; 09/06/1401:54 PM.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
