the thing about MLCs is you cant be sure its one until its over.
but claiming MLC allows the LBS to put all blame on the MLCer, and to blame it on some chemical change that makes them act a certain way, so its not the individual's fault either.
plus it allows the LBS to believe that someday they'll snap out of it and return.
plus it allows the LBS to convince themselves that they had no role in the breakdown of the R, since its all chemical anyway.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
your external actions are trying to show you've dropped the rope, and its a good start. but internally you have much work to do. 2 years and 34 threads later and every post is still all about him --- and this is not dropping the rope.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".