I received a phone call from a potential client wanting to use gift vouchers, which had expired, as I like to do what I can to help, I said that I'd be happy to honor them as long as they were not too far past the expiration. The client would only give me her first name, I have just found out that this "client" is actually the ow....I hate game players. grrr
How tacky! Tell her expired means expired.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
I received a phone call from a potential client wanting to use gift vouchers, which had expired, as I like to do what I can to help, I said that I'd be happy to honor them as long as they were not too far past the expiration. The client would only give me her first name, I have just found out that this "client" is actually the ow....I hate game players. grrr
I probably would mention to h that his OW called you with that "game" (which was odd at best, cruel at worst)
and leave it at that. Drop it. Do not engage further. And see a lawyer. I don't understand the reluctance to do that, b/c you cannot afford NOT to have the information you need to make smart decisions that protect you and your kids.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
and the hits keep coming, today I went to see my mil, h told her about ow last night, he wants his mother and step dad to meet her. h has had ow come to his house late at night, hide her car in a parking lot and then walk over to his house. I am absolutely broken, I don't think I can take much more, I don't even know what I would say to him when I see him tomorrow when I go to pick up the boys. everything is moving so quickly, its all a blur, we have been separated for four months, obviously he's been seeing her for longer. 25mlc, I haven't seen a solicitor yet as up until this point I saw no need, one because I believed that he wanted time to sort himself out, two because we always said it was about the boys first, and third because up until the last 3 days(and yes I know he's lied in the past) he has never been THIS man, I don't even see a glimmer of who my h was. I don't whether to tell him all that I know, or to simply pick up the boys and take them home. please, I know there will 2x4's coming, but could the blows be lighter, I really just need to know that I'm not alone right now, that others have come out the other side.
I'd say nothing watto when getting boys. Act 'as if'. Do not show any pain or hurt. You can do it!!!
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14
