Oh and I replied to H dating 'I really appreciate you sending me that. I hate that I had to work and missed his game.' He said 'he missed you being there he is so excited to show you his pictures on the wall at the gym'
I just said how good s3 was and H said how funny they were to watch. Do I continue to conversation? Tell him to have a good night? Or just don't respond?
Pretty annoyed my friend sent me a picture of H and OW at dinner last night. At a restaurant he always said he would never go to. I know I know. Let go. Just [censored] how she writes how spoiled she is and he can' barely help out with the boys and I.
H missed the basketball game. Sent me a text saying I didn't tell him it was at 9 he thought it was at 930. I just replied that I told him the previous week the game was at 9 and said nothing else. He then started telling me about how the bicycle he had had a flat tire and he had to go drive far away to get it fixed. I didn't reply back to anything.
Should I be doing anything different with these conversations
I don't think so. Keep it simple , cordial and business like.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
I was in a hurry with my previous post and neglected to mention this. I read many threads where people wonder of WAS will realize or regret their mistake 3, 6, or even 12 months after the fact. I think it's a normal thought many have had. I think the reality is that many of us ask, " will x regret doing this?" and don't acknowledge the possibility that this *can* happen. However it may be 1 year, 6 years or even 20 years don't the road. That's why it's imperative that people live their lives as if their WAS is not coming back.
I've had friends who realized a regret at ending a relationship and it may have been 5 or 10 years later. I don't say this to diminish hope. Rather, just to acknowledge people come to realizations on their own time frame. Some never do.
Hang in there!
GB
Sorry somehow I missed this post. I'm working on my life, GAL, to help me continue to detach. I am still very much a work in progress. I need to realize I cannot hang on to hope of him 'waking up' or realizing the mistake I think he is making because to him it is not a mistake (not currently at least).
I do feel as though I am making progress. It took me awhile but I do. H sent pictures of the boys for the first time since before he left the other night. He initiated text the last 2 days. I don't mean this as me reading into it and I feel indifferent towards it. I feel better because I didn't feel a need to push the conversation and I didn't really care to hear from him (I was happy to see the boys pictures )
