Thanks Thornton! My IC commented on the discussion we had that started the R talk.
It was because I had set out some boundaries about his responsibilies with the kids and he wasn't used to he and I having seperate boundaries. And he reacted negatively, at first, to them.
She too encouraged to keep up the changes - even just for me but to watch and see his reaction....
Maybe there is something to this DB business
M:41 H:38 D:6 D:3 M:11 yrs T:15 yrs Bomb: Feb 8/14 Seperated: Feb 12/14
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." Plato
Jenn - My H has also reacted negatively to some boundaries at first. After that initial reaction though (if I've stayed calm but firm), he has called me and told me that he understood and respected where I was coming from.
