I think s20 more as an old soul. I know he has had a hard time coming to terms with all of this. s20 got home Wednesday eve from college. h calls s20 to say stopping by( this eve- Fri). s20 leaves and goes for a walk... I don't get in their way. I know it is for h and s20 to figure out. so, h is going to the race for s17 tomorrow. s 20 staying behind to work. other friends are not home from school yet. I expect all will just be as it always is at the race. d 16 will want us to both be at dinner and breakfast. I have a meeting with L on Monday.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
labug, are you out there? I want to ask about your sons and how this stuff impacted them?
Any men out there who had parents d when they were in their late teens/early 20's?
I know the boys and h have to figure it out. H just does not spend much time with them and it breaks my heart for them.
s 20 seems unhappy, lost... I can't be his dad
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
