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Even more discouraged....spouse called me at work wanting all insurance information to put on divorce petition paperwork. As if I didn't have enough going on in my head to be kicked again when down.


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Whytry please watch that documentary, I was where you are right now, and all of this is a result of your toughts!! You need to change them in order to see things manifesting in a different way!!


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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Where can I rent it


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There are so many things I tough and they manifested!! My trip to Hawaii, my greencard, me going to college, and its because I never tough they were impossible to reach, it sounds crazy but all you have today its because you tough about it at certain point!! Change your toughs!! Detach from what its not bringing you hapiness


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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This is an example: look at the small things you think everyday...you wake up and you think about a croissant and you ended getting it right? Your circunstances are a product of how you see your reality now!!
You are thinking about D, its divorce gonna be there? Yes as long as you think about D, think about it and put all your energy in not thinking about D, but in thinking in what you want to be happy!!


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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Whytry go to hulu.com and in the search bar put "the secret"


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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If you want to DB successfully, you have to read the book. Make the time. You can do this.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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TY ye21 and mrbond. My days are getting so much busier and so much longer. Younger kids now have summer league baseball and older has high school baseball and track. I never seem to stop long enough to get a breath. Today thru me for a loop and I'm so afraid my busy schedule will never give me enough time to read so I can do this right. I'm tired and dragging and still have to fix supper, try to pick up, help kids with homework and get up at 3 for work. PULLING MY HAIR OUT!


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The first two months I brought the DR book, sandi's rules, and a journal everywhere I went. It was my life line and kept me grounded and when I felt panic I would read some or sandi's. I would read during breaks and during lunch. These 15 minutes here and there really added up and helped me get through the book and helped with my feelings of being overwhelmed and panicked.

Maybe you have time to do something similar.


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Married: 7y
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Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
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Thx gogofo. I have done some.
I can't let it be seen at home or spouse gets really upset. I was the one that ridiculed spouse before for trying this and since they've read more than I have they refuse to think I'm sincere. I'll keep along but I know this is the bed I made frown


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