I am very sorry to read about her passing. She was very young. May she rest in peace.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Very sad to read this. Through her I got my first aquintance with the term MLC, shortly after BD and through her posts I slowly but surely learned to understand what this was all about. She had an incredible talent for describing the crisis and how to handle things. May she rest in peace.
Is this the same Heart's Blessing that has the MLC website by the same name? Either way I am sad to see that she has passed. 54 is too young. That website was the first place I turned to after the initial BD. Then I found my way here.
May she rest in peace, and bless her for all the help she gave everyone with her words.
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.
This is so sad. How unfortunate to have passed so young. I doubt she had any idea how helpful her words were to so many strangers. I personally read blog post after blog post on her site and it brought so much clarity during such a tough time. May she rest peacefully.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
Very sad to hear this. She helped so many. When I was early in my journey, I would search this site for anything that she had written. Her words were pure wisdom and got me through some very sad times. I hope she went peacefully.
R.I.P.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13