yes, but my replies don't get posted, sometimes for days after I've written them, apparently because of the policy of Moderation. I won't complain, but of the 3-4 similar boards that I'm on, this is the most strict forum in this regard.
I looked into Al-anon - it seems to be entirely (not even mostly) devoted to drinking problems, etc. I'm game if it will teach me what I need to learn, but will it really? Won't I be out of place if I show up and there's no drinking issues in my life?
I'm also wary of mixing methods; right now I have DB(book, soon), our local counselor (using Gottman), and my DB personal coach. That's a lot to digest, and I don't want to get conflicting info.
