Journaling: (I'm not sure anyone reads my posts, anyway...lol)
H was Mr. Chatty yesterday via text- even called me "hot"...???? He's supposed to "stop by" tomorrow, but I'm not really sure I want him to. I've had a great week, and I'm afraid I'll let a weird, awkward comment from him taint it. But, I can't avoid him, or we'll never get anywhere. So, I guess I'll suck it up, put on a happy face and muscle through it.
I do think he can "sense" when I'm pulling away. But, I believe in energies, auras and all that "stuff".
Wish me luck!!
Hey I read your posts too..you're doing good
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
H is trying to disappear again. I guess I'll let him, cuz it's not like I have a choice!! Lol
In the meantime, life must go on- big presentation today, bowling tonight, skiing tomorrow and a science fest on Sunday with D12. My GAL is full-speed ahead!!!!!!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
that's so true - I'm so ready for Valentines to stop showing all this "lovey" commercials on tv. That and turning off love songs on the radio, ugh.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
my H is leaving "soon" but I don't know when, maybe by the 1st of the month. I took down all the wedding photos and tossed them. I can't look at them anymore, it's too sad. I have plans to paint almost every room and re arrange things, I want to make this home a sanctuary now and not just some bitter reminder. I'm going to be here for at least 5 years and I still hope for reconciliation but i'm definitely painting the porch and garage doors and making other changes around the house just to make me feel better. I'm enjoying reading your posts artsy because I'm in a similar boat and it's good to feel like i'm not alone!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
H stopped by while I was at class to pick up the card and cupcakes D12 made for him. He left me a card (from him and the dogs), some red hots (my fav) and a gift certificate for D12 and me to get a mani/pedi. Not expected at all! I sent him a text immediately to tell him I appreciated it- he's at work.
Regardless of the motive, I will enjoy it!!!! (Trying not to 1. Read too much in to it, and /or 2. Not blow it off)
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
I know, MamaB! I was really expecting him to pretend he wasn't even aware of the day, or to maybe get D12 a little something. He does show some normal human behavior _sometimes_!
And, of course, he's disappeared again now...lol
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
I'm seeing a pattern. Whenever H shows emotion or a lot of affection towards me, he disappears for 2 weeks (almost like clockwork). This will be the 4th time this has happened.
He's going out of town this weekend, and he supposed to take me for my surgery next week (but we have not confirmed any info on that, so not sure what the status is there...) AND, my birthday is next Thursday. Next week is the 2 week mark, so I will quietly observe the subject's behavior and note it in my documentation...
What strange and fascinating creatures the WASs are...
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
