Hey F, sorry to hear about the latest. I don't really have much of an answer, but somehow feel it is another similar thing like my W. That is they have reached a point where it seems that there is no more undecided decisions or which direction to take. It simply feels that they have reached a point where they now know which path they are on. I do truly hope that is not the case, just sounds like she is more set in what she says.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.