Trust you MH, typical bloke, lol. I agree NQ, I feel the same way about H at the mo. Once Christmas is over with my H might go back to being a "monster" again I feel this is why I need someone at the mo as well, someone who will hold me through the bad times as well as the good Mind you, that's taking on my baggage and he may not want to do that! Ok so a girl's allowed to fantasise, lol. I was thinking today as I was shopping that I'm 48 now, who's going to want a 48 year old and why couldn't H leave me when I was in my 30s, lol. Oh that's right he did and then came back! <sigh>
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
oops sorry NQ I've just been feeling old lately that's why, I think the thoughts started because I'm pre-menopausal
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Yes I actually can't wait to go on HRT. My friend is on it and she's had no problems with it. It stops you getting emotional and irritable which is what I'm having problems with at the mo. Well not so much the emotional bit, but definitely the irritability part. I had to stop myself on Sunday from getting irritable with H for critising the decorating. I huffed very loudly instead, lol. He heard as he said "and stop huffing as well" lol. I've decided what to do with the wall now, I'm going to get some flock wallpaper to put on it. Make a feature wall out of it The decorator mentioned it the other day and I said that I'd already thought about it. I'm not going to bother until after Christmas though now.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
A feature wall sounds like a fantastic idea. And I'd definitely wait until after Christmas.
My dad was going to wait until after Christmas to replace the toilet in the upstairs loo but when I got home from work yesterday I found half a toilet in my room - the other half was in his room. Apparently it needs to warm up to room temperature before he does any work. It seems he was wandering round the hardware store (guess that's something men like to do LOL) and found one on sale so he bought it. He's spending today replacing the old one. He was holding off on painting the room until he'd done the toilet, so I guess he's going to be painting soon as.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
lol so now you've got an en-suite in your rooms hehe
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
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I feel this is why I need someone at the mo as well, someone who will hold me through the bad times as well as the good 
Mind you, that's taking on my baggage and he may not want to do that! Ok so a girl's allowed to fantasise, lol.
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