I agree with TTD. Don't give up on your town - you're there for a few years yet. If you can't find anything in your town, how about the next one over if it's not too far.
Sounds like you still managed to chill over the weekend, which is a good thing.
Stay strong!
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I did get a call from MIL last name night I had a very interesting talk with her but I'm keeping it quite for right now until I get more 411. I don't know how to take this new news. I'll report back on a later date. It maybe good news but right now I'm not counting on it.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Me too but I just don't want to jinx the news but as you all say no expectations at this time. I need to keep doing what I'm doing and let things fall in place day by day. I can't wait I had reconnected with two formal co workers we have made plans to meet up next Tuesday for dinner I hope that they will keep their words. I'll keep you posted on that too.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
That sounds good, I hope they keep to their word too
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Grrrr I'm having another night where I can't fall asleep. I'm sooooo tired. And I have to be up in 5 hours to go to work. I'm going to try to close my eyes and hopefully I'll finally sleep
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Sorry you had a rough night. Have you tried a glass of wine before bed? If not sleeping is become a real problem, maybe you should talk to your doctor about a sleep aid. Either that or a natural health practioner if you'd prefer a non-chemical aid.
Hopefully you'll have a good day and a better night tonight.
Stay strong .
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I prefer the herbal solution and a glass of wine really helps too, lol
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I was just thinking of that too about glass of wine. Well so far once again my night is not going so well just got a set back I will not be able to get help for my fuel heating until I can get the account into my name well I called the fuel company and they told me that I can get the account under my name and take my H name off of the account but I will have to pay the back payment and I will have to pay ahead before they can fill my fuel tank up for The winter. Which there is no way I will be able to come up with the whole amount they said that I will need to get. Well I called H up about this and told him he better figure something out for the heat in the house for the boys. So he told me that he will call the fuel company and see what he needs to do. If not I will have to move to a new place which I won't be able to afford to start all over again. I can't believe this. I was doing so good until once again H has put me back to square one again. Well at lease my other bills are all up to date. Now the fuel bill is my new nightmare. Grrrr I think its time for a good night drink
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Hope it's good news