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I agree with Linda. He just may be waking up. This time it was the middle of the street, the next time he will be near the curb. The next time he will get out of his truck...lol. From what I've read on other's posts this is what they do when they start coming out, a little bit at a time. Heaven forbid should they admit any wrongdoing.

I think you are doing just awesome Rose. You are gaining strength.

Soooooooo, by the year 2018, he will will be able to walk to the front door???????? Set your calendars girls!

Haha, Heather, I’m thinking the same about my sitch.

Hahahahaha heather. That made me for real lol!!!

I don't know Linda and Pud.....I don't want to think like that because I don't know what I'd do so ill just keep going like it's never going to happen. I forgot to mention that when he stopped in the middle of the road he must have seen my girlfriend's car parked out front. Wonder what he thought seeing the lights all on and knowing she was here hanging out, very normal life going on, probably nothing-right? Does make me wonder why he waited until 10 at night to email me though. I know he was able to access the email on his phone hours earlier.

Worked a full day today and now, finally, making S19's requested birthday dinner. A little over a week late but better late than never.....even got a a small red velvet cake from the grocery store to go along with it. Then I have to go the bank, deposit the money for the mortgage, wax my legs (tmi??? Lol) because another full day of work tomorrow then fr is having a party, yes I'm going to a party, with friends, thrown by my priest!! Hahaha. It's a dress up as your favourite famous person so I'm posh, there's a scary, sporty, ginger and baby spice too. Livin the high life!! Lol.

WR

You are sounding good.

Let the lawyers handle the money. Doesn't sound like H will pony up on his own.

I would also guess that your priest was warning you to look out for yourself and to be a little cautious when dealing with your H. The MLCers get a bit loopy over the holidays, but so do the LBS. and he is right to give you that reminder. Heavens, I certainly need the reminder!

Just what we all need, EH? More emotions to worry about. Really maybe Spock had the right idea. And next time he parks in some weird place, maybe do a chalk outline and see if he inches closer.

Thank you Portia....it's been an ok couple of days and I'm grateful for them

I'm confused right now. Is still don't think he's coming back, not ever, but these little seed are putting doubt in my mind and I don't like them there.

I know....none of us need holiday "emotions" eh!! That is so funny about the chalk outline!! Hahahaha

I guess he has Christmas on the brain....

Hi W
My family is celebrating Christmas together on Christmas eve as we have done most years, I would like S19 & S14 to join us for dinner on Dec 24th. I do know Christmas is a very busy time for your family. But hoping you can help make this happen, as your family celebrates Christmas on both Dec.24th and 25th and my family only celebrates on Dec. 24th.

My response
Hi H
S19 may work Christmas Eve and, apparently, it will only be decided the week before and I'm not sure what time they close. S14 goes day by day.
They can let you, or me, know as we get closer and we can discuss it.

They've both already expressed a desire to continue most of our traditions so I have made arrangements to ensure this.

How did I do??

Hi W

Christmas eve was traditionally spent with my family. So I'm hoping to keep with this tradition.

Now, what do I say?

Your response was okay. Christmas Eve is a month away and things can change between now and then. So, I would sit quietly and wait to see what transpires. If your sons want to keep to family traditions, they can advise their father of their wishes in December.

Do I respond again Job? Could I have said it better?