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That criticism is like water dripping on a rock, we can't help but be affected by it.


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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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ad, just caught back up on your situation. Sounds like you are in a really good spot. Congratulations on that! You have worked hard and really deserve it.....

glad to know that things are working out for you.


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ad, a couple of posts back you mentioned a couple of books you read that were helpful - Brainlock and Leaving Home. Can you share the authors - looked at B&N online and there were several?

Thanks.


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Brain lock first author is schwartz. Although its about ocd it is helpful for considering anxiety related behaviors too, in oneself and in others. Generally a useful read.

Leaving home author celani, great info on getting beyond the influence of an imperfect childhood.


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The singing sounds very cool Ad!


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Thanks Ad. Appreciate the additional information. Found them both this morning.


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Originally Posted By: adinva
I sang with a band in someone's basement last night, first time ever, scared as h@ll, and it was so fun! Now I need to learn to not suk at it. That was definitely way outside my comfort zone. Met some really nice and talented musicians too, bonus.


SWEET!!!


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Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
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