I like the costume analogy. I think I even understand it.
I was thinking how I still feel relieved when W leaves.... The ol' walking on eggshells syndrome. I've learned to enjoy my me time. I remember the video I saw of MWD on youtube warning those WASs and MLCers that they're giving us excellent training for our next R if they don't come to their senses.
I like the sound of that youtube video, do you remember what it was called? I feel exactly the same now when H was round on Saturday picking up my son. I kept looking at my watch wondering when he was going to leave, lol. Well I was going out wasn't I? hehe. On Sunday H brought my son back for lunchtime. I had waited until my son got home and then made us lunch. I offered H some, but he said he'd just have a coffee. Me and my son sat on two tables in the living room eating our lunch as part of our routine If it wasn't for the fact that H got to watch what he wanted on TV, he would've probably have felt totally left out. I love my me time Even though my son's not here tonight, I still waited until 9 o'clock to have a spritzer. Old habits die hard, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I was looking thru my history on youtube. I guess that particular advice was for WAWs. She said if you do go thru with the D he's going to make someone a really great 2nd H. They've gone to school on your relationship. I guess the same can be said of the S of a MLCer, too. If you search for her on youtube she has quite a few videos.
Thanks MH I did search last night and found a few of her videos that were good I couldn't find the one that you were on about, but now that you mentioned WAW then I'll look again The tablets I've had from the doc have kicked in and I feel much better The stomach pains have gone now He's also upped my anti-Ds so I'll see how I feel with these ones. Hopefully I won't get so grouchy lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I missed out on a great run over the weekend. It was only 300klms away though. All the blokes had to run a 5km course wearing only a mankini. I still have mine in the top drawer. I was so ready for doing this run. Next year.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
A mankini? the mind boggles, lol. Sounds like good fun though
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
The tablets I've had from the doc have kicked in and I feel much better The stomach pains have gone now He's also upped my anti-Ds so I'll see how I feel with these ones. Hopefully I won't get so grouchy lol.
Glad to hear you're starting to feel better . Your health is number one priority.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I remember the video I saw of MWD on youtube warning those WASs and MLCers that they're giving us excellent training for our next R if they don't come to their senses. 
