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NQ, don't worry I'm not going to worry about the test results for now, I'm still thinking along the lines of menopause
Once I feel better I do intend to decorate this living room. The doc is also testing for anaemia so I might get a pick me up as well
I don't know how I'm going to fit in decorating classes though, you know how busy I am, lol. Good idea though
Yes I do intend on making the most of the time on my own I'm glad I don't have to put up with H being around decorating and interrupting the peace and quiet
I'm not going to answer any of his calls and texts, no fear of that, no sirreeee

TTD, you will be in my thoughts that the outcome of your tests will be good.

Don't answer his texts or you will have to answer to US. Be good to you!

You don't need decorating classes. A coat of paint and reorganizing furniture can do wonders for a room. It can make it look and feel like a brand new room.

I'm thinking maybe I should do that with the master bedroom. Of course, dad's started on the bathrooms so we'll deal with them first. Maybe then I'll consider stripping the wallpaper and painting my room. New curtains and bedding as well might be in order if money will stretch that far.

lol NQ. Funny you should say that, I've become very irritable of late, lol. I feel like the female version of Victor Meldrew, lol. There's another programme for MH to watch, we forgot about that one, lol. MH, look up one foot in the grave. "I don't believe it!" lol.

Kind of sums up our sitches, doesn't it??

Thanks Pud I think it's unfair of him to put this added burden on me at this time, but then that's because he's a selfish MLCer at the mo! Doi you know, when he wants something he acts like my old H Go figure!

I have plans for this house I just need to get rid of this bookcase and settee first and then start on the living room. The docs given me some tablets to help and I'm starting to feel better now I've had a rest You never know, I may even start tonight

Yes it does, lol. Not that anyone else will get what we're talking about though

First thing - I'll pop on over to move that bookcase and help with the organizing and DIY stuff. If you have a desk I can drag it around in a cluttered room into 10 or 12 positions until you just give up and settle for a spot close to where it was (well, it worked for me!). Remember, I work for food (and the occasional drink!).

If you're going to be ornery, though, forget it! LOL.

I think I've seen a few eps of that show. Pretty sure W used to watch it. At first I got it mixed up with Waiting for God. You can be Diana Trent "a curmudgeonly old woman who constantly complains about the state of the world." But, you're not old enough, so womenpause or no (LOL 2old!), you're not allowed to be that grumpy. But at least that character is a woman.

Take care of yourself. I have a good friend (who used to be a DBer - for many years, who has been through many setbacks and just went in the hospital. I think she has pushed herself beyond her physical limits at the moment.

I love your positive attitude though. If it's menopause, watch out H. LOL.

lol MH Thanks for the offer of coming round and helping with the DIY and organising I've got a table in the living room that you can move around several times before you find a home for it, lol. Always got plenty of food in and there's a bottle of baileys in the drinks cabinet that H left behind. I have reminded him it's there, but he's still not picked it up
I'm ok if I just rest at the moment. If I've had a busy day like today, then by the time I'm getting the last bus home everyone on it is starting to irritate me, lol. If it is menopause or womenopause (LOL) then HRT will sort me out
I must remember to ring up H when I'm in an irritated mood, lol.
I'm trying to keep up my PMA, actually it's coming easier to me these days I'm also finding it easier to stand up for myself with H as well I'm not going to let him bully me anymore!
I was just saying to a friend earlier, when he's being nice like he has been over the weekend, he acts like my old H. It's very confusing as you can imagine, so I'd rather he didn't put on this act. The Mr Hyde character comes back out when he's not getting his own way! At the moment this is his real persona if that makes sense. It's like putting a halloween costume on which is his MLC, then putting another costume on over the top of it. When he takes both costumes off, then he'll be back to normal again, lol. Does that make sense?
Lol. I've not even had a drink yet and already I'm talking nonsense, lol. Well I know what I mean even if no-one else does