NAP, is there a reason why you have not informed the OS? They have a cheating spouse that they need to address as well. Are you afraid it will push them together?
My DH came to me and said he got another phone.(DH said he was going to give her up since it wouldn't be fair to me and live her) He just can's stop talking to her. He knows he is wrong and she is married too but is having a hard time. I told him he had to do what made him happy and I was not going to I really think DH should move out but he said it would destroy us financially. I said that in 2 months after the holidays when he wants to leave it will be no different. It also gives the kids false hope.. I don't know I may be wrong?
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
I have tried but I can't seem to reach him. OW keeps intercepting it. I gave up. No I am not worried about pushing them together. EA lives 200 miles away and H and EA won't move. My H won't leave his kids and she does too. At least that is what H has told me.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
DB is very opposed to confronting the OS. Someone else's marriage is their business. Your business is you and your spouse. Just wanted to clarify that since we're on a DB site.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
Yes, I know that is the other reason I didn't pursue it. I was glad he didn't get the messages. Thanks
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Being very challenged living together and H thinking he is joking about hoping I find someone else. I went out to lunch with a friend and I said it was a "friend" not a male or female. It was a female. H just kept pushing wanting it to be a man. I walked away and he came to find me. H also likes to kid and knows it pushed my buttons. H also tried to initiate sex again Tuesday night and I said no. H told me it was me who started it. He does that a lot or says we didn't have it. My bad I got upset be cause he was insisting it was me. Then when I did get mad he said he was kidding. I politely said we are not at a place to joke or kid so please don't. H said you are correct. I was doing so well all day being happy and nice but then he pushes and I reached. A new day tomorrow!! Also, 180 is challenging too.My 180 would be more interested in what he is doing, helping, sitting to watch what he is watching, etc. Spending more time with him is not what I need to be doing!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
I was in WAS and MLB but not much action. Hoping if I come back here I will.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
H came to pick up d/s13. He was at the desk trying to use the printer. I picked up a piece of paper.H said what's that are we divorced? I said you not that lucky with a smile. I then asked how would we have you gone to atty? He said what if I had time to do that?
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Question. H is staying at the house while the kids and I are out of town. He taking care of the amimals. Is it bad to make him cookies? Maybe too pushy? Definitely not something he'd expect.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
