job, i'd hate to hijack this thread (not much action on mine lately), but can the same go for when D proceedings start? At the moment I'm going along like I want D as badly as W and we plan to file jointly then mediate but deep down in a little box somewhere I hope that she'd change her mind at some point and we can get our family back on track together. She has no interest in R at this time, so I'm just focused on being amicable but strong in what I'd like as far as settlement goes. I'm trying to be open to wherever it all leads.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
ETC, I have provided my opinion on your situation on your thread.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I am absolutely devastated. My H has returned my laptops wiped, all baby pictures have gone. All so he could hide whatever he has been up to. I'm disgusted and not sure i could ever forgive this.
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13
I'm so sorry to hear this. Maybe your h downloaded the photos to a thumb drive??? Where they on the hard drive or on your ISP server? You may want to contact a computer techie so see if they can be retrieved.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
DO NOT use the laptops! Until you get a professional eval of the sitch, the more you use the laptop, the more likely the pics with be overwritten....they may be recoverable!
The best in the data recovery business is Ontrack data recovery...call them, I have used them for major corporate data loss...they are not cheap, but the best in the business.
I'm so sorry he did that....
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
I've handed the laptops over to a computer tech within hours of finding out. I've got family collecting pictures that they have.
For me it's the act that I can't get over. I know he didn't do it to delete all the pictures. I know he did it to hide whatever he's up to. But I'm still devastated.
My sympathy for his situation is dwindling. As are my hopes that well ever be able to get back together. I've asked my IT guy to retrieve everything, my divorce lawyer may need it one day!
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13
