I would hold his chin and look into his eyes deeply and just look. You can tell by the eyes.
Yep, when the old them peeps out the eyes are a lot clearer and more focused. Not to mention that at those times, H will actually make eye contact with me a lot more. The rest of the time he'll avoid eye contact and his eyes aren't very focused when he does accidentally make eye contact.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
Hmmmm I'll have to watch for that! H doesn't give me eye contact very much either, but then again neither do I!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
anyway NQ, I should say sorry that holes have appeared in his story already Good job you weren't 100% convinced! I forgot about H taking the tent, camping chair and sleeping bag. That had a huuuuuge hole in his story! Well if you can call it a story, he was as transparent as a window, lol.
I actually can't say I'm sorry - it's just more proof that he's still deep in that MLC fog of his, and proof that I was right not to believe a word he said.
Paranoia is another symptom he's been showing lately. He's been going on for a few weeks about the our camping equipment and the fact that the dining shelter isn't where he left it. I'm sure he loaned it to his buddy a couple years ago and it wasn't returned, but he swears blind that my dad gave it away to one of my sisters - neither of whom need one as one doesn't camp and the other has a trailer and dining shelter of her own. He also accused dad of snooping through our room .
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
This ones a puzzler for me - When H comes round he always gets the pig mug out of the cupboard because he says he's a pig! My life coach told me to hide it, I've done one better than that, I've thrown it away
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
My H has two coffee mugs in my kitchen cupboard at the mo and he's already said he's going to take them with him when he packs his stuff. Don't know what he's going to have his coffee in then as he's kind of OCD about using the other mugs in the cupboard . Guess I won't have to make him coffee anymore once those two mugs go
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
lol NQ. I think my H is ocd about this pig mug, so maybe that means I don't have to make him a coffee anymore either I can always lie and say I broke it by mistake. What's good for the goose eh? lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Good job you weren't 100% convinced! I forgot about H taking the tent, camping chair and sleeping bag. That had a huuuuuge hole in his story! Well if you can call it a story, he was as transparent as a window, lol. 
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