I'm in the same boat in regards to being back here again(2007) after I once again became the same person I didn't like.

It's rough, maybe last time we made the changes but weren't aware of what we needed to do to keep that going. For me, I think my H and I never really resolved our deeper issues because we were so happy again, we thought we had conquered it.

The way I look at it, I have something new to learn, I am aware of it this time and I will change it in the future. Once I figure out exactly what it is! It's a long painful journey I see.

We are always given the exact problems we need to fix in order to fix ourselves. If it keeps happening, we haven't fixed it yet.
Keep posting and reading all you can.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.