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*mind blown*

I'm digging the comparing and contrasting of QP and DB.

Keep going Mr. Occam, errr Awesome. Actually I think I like Occam even better. Good stuff!


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M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
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Hey T, another reason why I like you. I am also known to engage in strange discussions. smile

I have been feeling for some time that your sitch was heading in this direction. You might see some more quiet time from her.

You need to step back, watch and let her do her thing.

I am pulling for you, my friend.

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Originally Posted By: TSquared2

In the quantum version of the arrow paradox, theoretical physicists posited in 1977 that if a quantum system is measured often enough, its state will be unable to progress, as if it were true that 'a watched pot never boils'. The hypothesis arises from a fundamental postulate of quantum theory, which says that measuring a property of an object, such as its position, affects its state.


Cool! Weigh ourselves 20 times a day and never get fat!

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I will post about those reconnection details at a future date, since for some reason I feel the need to be extra cautious and NOT jinx it by posting the details atm


I can't wait 'til you can reveal the reconnection details!

By the way, worrying about jinx is just silly. Everyone knows there's no such thing as jinx as long as we have our lucky rabbits foot.


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She's still worth it.

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Thank you all! smile

FY, in the past whenever W would start to warm up I would post everything and get excited, etc. And then back towards the tunnel she'd go...so I am trying something different this time... wink

And none of the details involves PT (unfortunately), just behaviors, actions and demeanor. wink


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Originally Posted By: TSquared2
And none of the details involves PT (unfortunately), just behaviors, actions and demeanor. wink


Groaning inwardly

Why deprive all of your esteemed DB colleagues of those PT details??!! grin That was my daily fix, my dear friend. cool

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T2,
Continue to sit quietly and observe. The actions you are observing will tell you what you need to know. You are doing great!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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i think the "groaning inwardly" phrase triggered my fear of rejection button....


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm

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grin


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

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ILYBNILWY...just to be clear, I'm not going back to you. grin

Seriously, T...I agree with others that you're doing really good in being still and waiting for the answers to come to you. Changing things up helps in determining which actions get better results and jot down these results in your clipboard for further study.

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Fingers crossed, prayers said, wishing on a star - all done, my friend.

You just keep going. Let the universe do its work on her.

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